Sex is fun, and what happens during it should always be defined by the two or more (or maybe just one) consenting adults involved.  Trusting that all parties involved are capable of giving informed consent, sex can and should be whatever those involved want it to be.

Even if it is restricted to the religiously advised ‘missionary’ position, it is still fun, ok?  If just being ‘vanilla’ (as the BDSM [Bondage, Discipline/Domination, Submission/Sadism, Masochism] community rudely call it) floats your boat, then that’s your choice.

In complete contrast, if dressing up as a large cabbage and having your partner provocatively sing like Dean Martin as they poke you with a stick of celery turns you on, then that’s your boat even though I personally don’t find it an erotic boat for me.  Honest, I don’t at all.

Really, I don’t.

However, sickeningly, there are nutters out there who have made it illegal to make ‘porn’ in the UK that contains such ‘deviations’.

It’s now illegal to depict:

Spanking

Caning

Aggressive whipping

Penetration by any object “associated with violence”

Physical or verbal abuse (regardless of  if consensual)

Urolagnia (known as “water sports”)

Role-playing as non-adults

Physical restraint

Humiliation

Female ejaculation

Strangulation

Facesitting

Fisting

But is that fair on those who enjoy watching such things?  I think not.

So, how comes there’s been no huge public outcry about it? No-one cares or everybody can get porn from other countries?