Situation 1: A man threatens a woman with death if she doesn’t lay still whilst he rapes her. He penetrates her, has relatively gentle sex with her to ejaculation, withdraws and sets her free having left no physical damage.
Situation 2: A woman is beaten and held down whilst being systematically penetrated by a number of objects, some of which are used with such force that she is physically damaged to the point where she is in need of considerable medical attention. At no time is she entered by a man’s penis.
Question: Which is the more horrendous event?
Men: Usually pick Situation 2.
Women: Usually pick Situation 1.
Why?